August 2023

Holy cow, what a month.

We kicked off with a fun-filled visit from my parents. Since we were all still dealing with a cough and such, it was a fantastic distraction.

It rained almost the entire visit, but we did manage to find the best night to go to the Montgomery County Fair. Little Man got to ride several rides by himself (and with the Mister) and played a fishing game to win a prize. He had an absolute blast. He didn’t want to leave.

Teacups with Daddy.
Thumbs up!
He was so excited to see rides he could go on alone.
He chose the pizza slice as a prize.
Fair time with Nana and Grandad

They even got to do the Home Depot workshop together.

As usual, the visit wasn’t long enough, but we had a nice time.

I spent the following week dealing with Tricare and trying to schedule Little Man for his first dental appointment. One place didn’t have openings until January! And nevermind, the 2 other offices that didn’t answer their phones during business hours/never called me back.

I finally received a new speech referral, and instead of following Ms. Alexis, it was for another clinic… and they couldn’t get him in to be evaluated for six months. So, I called Tricare and specifically asked for the clinic we originally wanted. They were able to get him evaluated within 2 weeks and he is back with Alexis.

We are SO pleased with the new speech clinic. It’s just all around a nicer place to be. All the staff seems happy to be there and actually cares about their work, whereas apart from the therapists themselves, everyone at the other place seemed to just be there for a job. Heck, even the new lobby is more inviting with new themes every week.

Little Man enjoyed the peaceful lobby and was super excited to see Ms. Alexis!

Following the luck with sorting the speech debacle, I also found a pediatric dentist right up the road from speech that accepted Tricare, and they were able to get him in within a week for his first visit.

He did excellent and no cavities!

It’s been a constant struggle with all kinds of healthcare this month. I was still coughing through mid-month and my PCM had no openings at all, so I resorted to not one, but two ER visits.

The first visit was because I started having chest pains from all the hacking. I was in and out within 2 hours with some high dose cough meds and no painkillers. The following day, I went back because the pain was getting worse. Like hurt to breathe, worse.

Turns out, I pulled a muscle in my chest wall and needed a breathing treatment, steroids, and painkillers to finally kick the cough.

Nebulizer after 6 hours of hanging out in the ER.

As of this post, I am still on the mend. The Mister is still dealing with the brunt of it too with chest pain from coughing and his own ER visit. He’s still coughing his lungs out, too.

Thankfully, Little Man got the cough out of his system without medical intervention. He still has a runny nose here and there (thanks allergies) but he is by far the best feeling in the house. It’s been a rough one.

In the midst of all the crazy stuff, we hit another milestone.

Little Man got his big boy bed!

He was so excited, he didn’t let me put the comforter on.

He picked out the banana sheets himself. His comforter has Bluey and stars on it, which he also picked out a while ago. Now, he’s all about “ickey’s club owwwse” (Mickey’s Clubhouse), but hey. Haha. Nana is sending him some Mickey sheets she picked up on the dollar auction, so he’ll be thrilled to mix and match his favorites.

I found a beautiful maple headboard at Habitat for Humanity ReStore for $20, but since I’ve been trying to heal, I haven’t had a chance to get it sanded/refinished.  So we are making due with his crib rail in the meantime.

Probably should have grabbed the footboard too, but his room is a tight squeeze as it is.

We went to several mattess places and good grief! It’s obviously been too long since we bought one because they’re outrageously expensive now. We lucked out and got a great deal at Mattress Firm since we were the only customers to come to that location that day. We seriously saved $400 on the mattress alone. Little Man even fell asleep on it in the store and didn’t budge while we finished the paperwork for delivery.

Once we got the bed sorted, we used the Kohl’s cash Grandma Waid gave us from her visit to grab some new school clothes. He was particularly excited for the Mickey sweatshirt.

We would’ve bought it while she was visiting but our store didn’t have it in stock in his size so I had to find it on their website. He also snagged some more undies.

He’s doing great with potty training. Just a few accidents when he’s not paying attention. He’s still not great at telling us he has to go, but he has some pretty obvious tells. Lots of changes at once, but he’s doing very well!

With running around we’ve done for Little Man this month, we continued with a fresh haircut and took Roxie to the groomer for the first time.

Probably could’ve trimmed his bangs a bit more, but mama wasn’t there to mention it. At least it’s out of his eyes again!

Miss Roxie did very well with the groomer. She was timid at first (and probably a little carsick), but she didn’t panic like Indie does and definitely didn’t cause a fuss for extra charges.

She was worn out, but significantly less of a shedding mess.

As the month wound down, our schedules got busy busy busy.

On the 24th, Little Man met his preschool teacher and saw his classroom.

He was quite excited.

That weekend, we took the time to finally visit the Customs House Museum. We’ve been meaning to visit since we moved to Clarksville and just never went. We took advantage of the Blue Star Museums promotion, so admission was free for military.

Exterior.
Gallery space.
Such gorgeous original woodwork.

They have an excellent hands-on kids’ section, which Little Man loved.

The month, unfortunately, was not without tragedy.

My Aunt Tammy passed away.

Though not totally unexpected, the news is devastating, especially for my mom. The sisters were so close. As much as my mom calls me, she called Tammy just as much plus more. They were the best of friends in addition to being sisters.

Tammy had recently been diagnosed with cirrhosis of the liver and was in the hospital with an unrelated injury when she became unresponsive. My mom made the trip to Texas and was unable to make it in time to say her goodbyes.

My mom (left) and Tammy a few summers back.

I know it’s going to be a very difficult grieving process. I wish I could have been there to help my mom. I really hate that I’m so far away.

As the last week of the month got underway, we combated the sadness with some more milestones.

Little Man started preschool on the 29th!

Little ham. I made his sign after seeing how expensive they were online.
I think he was tired of me taking photos.
Daddy even got to come for drop off!
His preschool teachers posted some photos of their first days.
He cooperated better for Mrs. Rachel.

He had an excellent first week and seems really happy to be there.

He is all about the cars.

I hope we are able to get into a better routine as the weeks continue. With a new speech schedule and preschool, our weeks are a lot busier and it’s been difficult adjusting to the new changes.

Bedtime is a mess, but I’m hopeful it starts being less of a battle.

As September is practically here, we have a lot to look forward to in the coming weeks. We tend to start getting busiest in the fall.

Labor Day is a long weekend for us. We are thinking of going to the Butterfly Festival in Oak Grove, Kentucky. I’ll also be remembering my sweet Audie boy on what would have been his 10th birthday.

Then my Aunt Judy and Uncle Brad are coming to visit for a couple of days mid-week.

The following weekend is the Highland Games and the Trail of Tears Pow Wow (though I’m not sure we’ll attend the pow wow this year — the heat will be the deciding factor).

Then we get a little bit of time off before Barks & Brews and Oktoberfest.

Before we know it, we’ll be deep into fall and that much closer to the holidays.

Until then,

Cheers!

July 2023

Anyone else feel like July went by too fast, but was incredibly long as well? Just me? Cool.

Needless to say, July was weird for us. We didn’t do much, as planned, but we had a few things pop up.

We started off with celebrating our oldest pack member’s birthday. Our sweet orange boy Jack turned 13!

Such a sweet old man who is definitely not slowing down!

This cat is far and away the best kitty around. He’s still as spry and ornery as they day we brought him home from the Beatrice (Nebraska) Humane Society at 6 months old. I hope he out-lives us all.

Then, we celebrated the 4th of July with sparklers and fireworks on post. We even got to hear/see Lynyrd Skynyrd perform.

This was Little Man’s first time trying sparklers; he was a little apprehensive, but he did great keeping it away from his body.
Dad’s lap is way better than his own chair.
We weren’t even going to get anywhere close to the huge crowd, but zooming in worked out alright.

The next day was an unexpected trip to the vet for Miss Independence. I noticed her licking her rear end that morning and noticed she was bleeding. Since she’s been fixed for years, I knew something was up. $200 and 10 days of medication later, we learned she ruptured one of her anal glands (gross!).

Thankfully, it didn’t require surgery and seems to have healed up without complication. The biggest hurdle was keeping her from licking (which she didn’t really do much). She was truly unbothered by the whole ordeal.

Luckily, the rest of the month was slightly smoother.

We really didn’t do much of anything for the remainder of the month. The Mister had 2 days of staff duty, so it was Little Man and mommy for the Lowes and Home Depot workshops this month.

Roxie went on a shoe eating rampage and shredded 3 different pairs of Little Man’s shoes.

Normally, it’s not a huge deal as we usually have backups for the next few sizes, but this took out all of the shoes he currently can wear. So we had to make a trip to Once Upon A Child for some spares (kids shoes should not be so expensive new!). Roxie unfortunately snagged those two new pairs from the counter as well. Since then, she has been good — we gave her some beef hide rolls to keep her chewing on something positive.

The Mister had some stressful few weeks of work. His new command SgtM has been getting on his case and being an absolute dick about stuff at work. He even told the Mister to get his act together in 30 days, or he’d fire him, but never told him what he was doing wrong or how he could improve. Needless to say, the Mister wasn’t very happy about that. Even his squad leaders were upset about it and kind of blindsided the new Lt Col with their unhappiness. The SgtM apologized to me at the monthly potluck but still got his backhanded compliments in. Had I been feeling more fiery, I would have called him on his bull, but…I didn’t want to cause more issues for the Mister at work. Apparently, the new Lt Col must’ve reigned in the SgtM as it’s all blown over now, thankfully.

The biggest change of the month is potty training is in full swing! Little Man has to be ready for preschool in a few weeks, so we got a jump on it.

He is doing pretty well with his big boy undies and doesn’t seem to mind the toilet. He doesn’t like to let us know he needs to potty yet, but he does do the potty dance and has finally stopped fighting us about trying when we ask if he needs to go.

We had a lot of house cleaning and laundry to be done there for a bit, but it was definitely needed as my mother-in-law stopped for an all too short visit on her way to Michigan the last weekend of the month.

We went to one of our favorite antique shops (which is getting new owners soon) and hit Kohls for the back to school sales. I didn’t get any photos but it was a nice visit.

The whole house has come down with some summer colds. Little Man and I have been coughing our lungs out for about a 4-5 days at this writing. We thought it was allergies at the start, but since then, everyone has gotten some type of sinus issue going on. The coughing is far and away the most annoying part. Mucinex seems to have dried me out entirely, but my throat is now super dry and scratchy. I’m ready for it to all to take a hike!

August is going to be the start of a huge change for us.

Little Man starts preschool two half days a week! I am excited for him to be around kids his own age, but I sure am nervous as well. His speech delay will hopefully improve as he gets to be around more than just me.

Speech therapy will also hopefully see a change. His new speech therapist Alexis has left the practice, so we are in the middle of getting all the paperwork in order to hopefully follow her to her new clinic. It’s been such a rough transition with all these changes and the current clinic he goes to has not made me feel very confident in their abilities.

I’m just ready for him to have more of a routine without all the disruptions to his care. It’s been such a debacle since Ms. Sydney left and seems to be an ongoing problem now. There’s been scheduling issues, poor communication, and with his most recent visit, I felt brushed off, so I’m eager to wash my hands of this place.

Despite all that drama, Little Man has been improving greatly recently. He is more willing to use words and imitate what you ask him to say. He’s started using short sentences and is doing well. Being sick and trying to potty train have somewhat slowed us down, but I feel like we’re making so much progress.

Since preschool doesn’t start until the end of August, we will likely spend the first couple of weeks practicing using his lunch box and putting on his own clothes with less help. I’m also looking forward to getting him into a regular sleeping routine. Everyone needs a bit of help with a better routine around here.

Here’s to hoping we can continue to recover and get settled in the next month.

Until then,

Cheers!